No one could accuse F M Mayor of writing a cheerful story, but she certainly wrote a beautifully poignant one, and one I found very readable. I have been circling around this novel and The Third Miss Symons for some time, knowing already that there would be a degree of sadness to the stories of stagnant lives that Mayor appears to have particularly written about. I have Simon and Karen’s 1924 club to thank for giving me the nudge to read The Rector’s Daughter my first F M Mayor novel.
Flora M Mayor, like the woman she created in this novel was the daughter of a clergyman. However according to Janet Morgan in her introduction to this edition, Flora was nothing like her heroine Mary Jocelyn. I was rather delighted to learn that Flora seemed to have had quite a bit of spirit about her.
Mary Jocelyn is in her mid-thirties and already fading, her life has been one of quiet, respectful duty. Living in the home of her father Canon Jocelyn, Dedmayne Rectory a house as faded as its occupants, Mary is pitied by her neighbours for the reduced life she is living. Having devoted herself to her father, her recently deceased, disabled sister, and the few wants of the villagers Mary has little to look forward to. An occasional visit from her childhood friend Dora, a short holiday to Broadstairs with her Aunt, is what her life has become. Her father is an octogenarian of Victorian values, a man of cold reserve, he has no idea of Mary’s inner life, and he takes her and her continual presence for granted.
“She supposed her winter was passing as ordinary winters passed, but she was changing. She began to have longings she never had before. Her mind frequently recurred to the question which occupied Shakespeare’s heroines, ‘what is love?’
Lady Meryton is fond of poor Mary, and invites her to her garden party. Dora accompanies Mary – but it appears that although Mary is viewed as a little dull she is acceptable in a way that Dora never can be – the difference in their social standing perhaps inexplicable to us in 2015 is clear enough to Lady Meryton’s guests. One of these guests is Kathy, captivatingly beautiful, young, and blessed with all the effervescent fun and sarcastic wit of the age.
“Dora came from that section of the middle class which is so good and kind it cannot be rude. (Mary came from the section immediately above it which can)…”
When another parson, Robert Herbert comes back to the area, the son of an old friend of Canon Jocelyn; Mary’s suppressed emotional life is rocked. Mary falls in love with Mr Herbert, it would seem her feelings are returned, the two get along very well, and Mary recognises something of his feelings in the look he gives her when they are walking together. Mary allows herself briefly to dream, to wonder, and to hope. In a moment of rash confidence Mary writes to Dora of her hopes, and Dora’s reply only helps to encourage her. Nothing however is destined to be so happily straightforward for Mary.
“Each felt drawn to the other. It struck him how beautifully her eyes shone when the tears were in them. She seemed easy to talk to. As a clergyman he had sometimes been called on to console women, but he had never considered himself an adept with them; he had not liked them, shrinking in repulsion from the too patent fact how much some liked him.”
Mary is quietly shattered when Robert Herbert suddenly announces his engagement to the much younger Kathy. Hiding her devastation, she must congratulate him, and get ready to welcome his new bride to the area. Robert and Kathy are fairly obviously mismatched; they are carried away by the bliss of new love during the first year of their marriage. The focus of the novel switches a little now, in the story of the Herbert’s marriage, Mary is a visitor and friend of the couple, awkwardly positioned, when the cracks begin to appear. Kathy’s friends (of the cynical, witty bright young things type) are now frequently to be found at the Herbert’s home, Robert finds his middle-age quiet shattered by their shenanigans, they embarrass him in church while he is in the midst of preaching, and spirit Kathy away to the South of France on a holiday without her husband.
F M Mayor‘s story is that of a heart-breaking love triangle, it is also the story of the unfolding of a woman’s emotional life. Mary is ill-equipped to pursue her dreams; her life has been one of duty and Victorian values. The jazz-age is a world she is little prepared for; so often she seems like a woman out of time.
If you absolutely insist on a happy ever after, then F M Mayor might not be for you – thankfully I don’t insist on that. F M Mayor writes about quiet, unremarkable people and their quiet, disappointed, unfulfilled lives, the poignancy of this is obvious but Mayor’s writing is lovely and her characters so well drawn that I was hooked by their story.
I read this a few years ago and absolutely loved it — thought it was sad but not depressing. The Third Miss Symons is a bit darker. Nice review.
Yes, it’s not depressing at all somehow.
Great review Ali. Sounds like this book captures the differences in attitude of women of different ages in the 1920s – very interesting and a good addition to the 1924 Club!
Thank you. So glad I read this for the club , such a good novel. Mary was definitely outside of her time.
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They way you’ve described this, makes me think that Mayor was a latter day Anita Brookner perhaps?
Intriguing.
I love how you ‘discover’ and feature all these lesser known authors and stories – thank you.
I can see some parallels with Brookner actually, another writer I really like.
Ali, it sounds really good! It seems 1924 was a very good year.
Judging by the list of books from 1924 we have been seeing I think it was a very good year.
This sounds just beautiful! I’m going to see if I can get this from the library. Going to have a quick look through the 746 to see if I have anything from 1924.
Oh great, I hope you are able to find something for the 1924 club, there are some great ones on the list.
I have this author on my radar. Strange isn’t it, the way women were considered “done” at thirty. Today, what is it? Forty is the new 12 or something?
Ha ha, well when I turned 40 (7years ago) someone said to me don’t worry 40’s the new 25, 60’s the new 40. 😀 Maybe.
Well it’s nice to not be written off as close to the knacker’s yard when you’re only 40 or 50, but alternately, the opposite seems to be true these days. I am surrounded by people who are enjoying a second adolescence.
It sounds similar to Winifrid Holtbys “Crowded Streets” that I’m reading for the 1924 club. So many thwarted women’s lives!
I loved The Crowded Street, although South Riding is her absolute masterpiece.
This novel has been on my radar since it appeared in a list of neglected classics in The Guardian a few years ago.
http://www.theguardian.com/culture/gallery/2011/feb/27/ten-best-neglected-literary-classics
It sounds wonderful – a quiet, introspective read.
Thanks for that link. A few on that list I’ve read and some I’ve not heard of. It’s sad how many very good novels of the past are now neglected.
This is a wonderful novel! I read it years ago, and enjoyed it so much. I had forgotten all about Mary and her sad yearnings and losses. Lovely review! Am glad I hung onto the book, and thanks for reminding me of it.
I’m so glad I was given the push to read it. Truly a forgotten classic.
I loved this book when I read it back in 2013 – but I don’t mind a not-so-happy ending either, as long as it’s believable.
Yes, and this ending was believable in fact I can’t see how else it could have ended really.
This is one of the novels Susan Hill mentions in Howard’s End is on the Landing -if I’m not mistaken. And ever since I read about it, I thought I would love to read it. You make it sound great.
Hope you manage to read it one day. Susan Howard mentioned so many excellent books in Howards End is on the Landing.
Or Susan Hill I should say.
I find myself often saying, even to strangers, “Not everyone comes to a good ending.” Considering this truth gives a kind of comfort.
Ha, well yes I suppose so.
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